Welcome to the Ela Community!

A community aimed at bringing men and women to share experiences about their fertility and beyond.

To maintain the ethics and relevance of the community, we have laid out some rule for participating in our Community:

1. Be Kind

2. Be Honest

3. Be Helpful & Supportive

4. Be Safe

It's that simple! But in case you need more detail, we've outlined some of the basic principles below:

Be Kind

Help us make the Ela Community a safe and welcoming place for women from all walks of life.

Let's lift each other up, not beat each other down. Be respectful of others, be kind, and be polite, even when you disagree. Give others the benefit of the doubt. Harassment, bullying, shaming, and hate are not welcome here.

Be Honest

Trust is vital to the Ela Community. We discuss a lot of sensitive issues in the Community, and we want everyone to feel safe doing so. Be honest in your posts and comments.

Be Helpful & Supportive

The Ela Community is a place for women to ask questions, share their experiences, and get advice. Support your fellow Community members by answering their questions, providing helpful information, and sharing your own experiences. Respect that everyone will have different opinions and points of view. Be sensitive to the feelings of others.

Be Safe

The Ela Community is a place where women should feel safe to discuss even the most sensitive and intimate details of their lives, their health, and their fertility. Safety is very important! Use common sense when posting on the Ela Community, and protect the safety of other members by reporting users and posts that break our rules.

Please be aware: we may warn, suspend, or ban active users who do not follow our Community rules. Users who repeatedly break the rules may be asked to leave the Community.

A few last things to keep in mind:

You might also want to check our Terms of Services .